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Meal train

Our friends Anna, Carol, and Allison have set up a meal train for us. Now that we know Lily's volleyball schedule, we have dates for meals through mid-November. We're grateful for the delicious meals people have provided thus far. For those of you who are local, here's the link: https://mealtrain.com/zokyke

I'm doing well at home on 1-2L oxygen. I have to bump it up when I go outside to walk or when doing stuff around the house. Today I got more than 3000 steps for the first time since July 27!

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  1. Enjoy the company and love demonstrated through those meals. You are surrounded by people who care deeply for you and your family. Glad to hear that Lily is a member of the volleyball team. Improving health is a good sign, it will take time so be patient. Hugs!

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  2. We’d send you couscous from here if we could… 😊❤️

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    1. Yes, and I'm sure it would help the healing process!

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    2. Yay!!! Glad to hear about the yummy meal provision through November. You will need it. Keep resting at home on your 1-2L oxygen if that’s considered the good range. I agree patience is hard (not my forte) but you will need to be kind to yourself & take it slow for a bit so you can do all the things you love later. I don’t even count my steps now lol 😂. Healing first ❤️❤️ Hugs & love hi to the family 🤗

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